Probably, most of guys to some extent has a constraint before the girl at communication. Roughly speaking, it is possible to include both fear of approach, and indecision in seducing in this concept. Why so happens? When you see the girl, at you in the head quite concrete desires in relation to it appear.

For example, you go along the street and see the beautiful girl who meets halfway. If to cut all garbage thoughts in the head, then there will be a following: it is necessary to approach, communicate, look as far as it is interesting, and, at least, to ask for a phone number.

But because you are shy you are not doing it. We have a solution - pick any of our amateur cam girls and start chatting with them.

There are following reasons:

#1 Education

The boy was brought up generally by mother, and to him typically male traits of character did not take root: self-confidence; rigidity; confidence is what can be taken that there is a wish (within UK). He badly feels in himself a machismo. And it is the most important in communication with girls.

#2 Life experience

Perhaps, there were situations in respect of negative experience of communication with an opposite sex, especially at children's age. Girls either rejected, or offended, or pressed) And these situations densely sat down at the head. Subconsciously it seems that if you approach to get acquainted, then the situation will repeat, and it will be sore.

How to remove shy feeling while you chat with girls

To change a situation, it is necessary long and to work hard on himself. It will be sometimes really heavy. But that it is better: to make nothing and to remain constraining until the end of life and to suffer, or to get itself by the balls and to change a situation?

Begin with small. It is not necessary to represent itself abrupt at once, to approach girls in style of the macho and to try to take phone.

Quick ways to overcome being shy amateur

• 20 "greetings". Just go along to live chat room and send message to the pleasant girl a loud and steady "hi". Do not forget to smile. It is not necessary to stop.
• 20 approaches: ask how the site works and other how to questions.
• 20 compliments: approach the girl and give her a compliment. For example, tell, it has very cool hair, or a beautiful dress in cheerful tones. Anything. Wish a good day. Be stupid, be silly and the confidence will grow.
• 20 opinions: tell that you need her female opinion on anything or situation. Or that you want to give a gift to the sister or the girlfriend. Let she will prompt.
• After full implementation of these tasks, I assure, you will feel 3 levels more surely, and the most part of constraint before girls will leave.

Especially as tasks rather simple, and at their execution the girl will not manage to send you because you do not apply for her in any way and you do not ask a phone number.

Remember one main thing

You can read tens of pickup books and subjects on the subject of how to get acquainted and communicate with the girl how to cease to hesitate it. But it on millimeter will not help you if you do not take actions in this direction.

Begin to take some action right now. Go outside, walk, and just begin to smile to the pleasant girls. Or you can start here right now – pick any of our amateur girls and start chatting. It already something. And so, on - slightly, working on itself every day, moderately leaving a comfort zone, you in several months will see that you strongly changed.